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Marriage Ministry Resources

Enrich Marriages
in Your Church

Re|engage is a marriage ministry that provides couples in your church a safe place to reconnect through stories of hope, biblical teaching, and small groups.

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Partnering with Churches to Care for Marriages

800+

Churches of varying sizes and denominations use
Re|engage

20+

Years of marriages transformed at churches across the globe

96%

Of participants would recommend
Re|engage to others

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Marriage Ministry

How Re|engage Works

Re|engage is a marriage ministry that helps your church care for couples across a wide range of marriage needs. It gives your team a clear, biblical framework for creating honest conversations, encouraging discipleship, and helping couples grow in their marriages.

 
Program Length
14 lessons over four to six months
Time
Weekly coursework and a weekly meeting
Leader Structure
One leader couple to five participant couples
Cost
No licensing fees
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A Marriage Ministry Focused on Discipleship

Re|engage is designed to help your church disciple married couples, not simply improve marriages. As couples learn to abide in Christ and grow as his disciples, healthier marriages can become a natural result of that deeper spiritual growth.

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Couples often come to Re|engage looking for help with their marriage. The ministry meets them in that felt need and points them to the truth that following Jesus more closely is the only way to experience the lasting change they are seeking.

bible Lay Leaders Expand Your Care

Re|engage is designed to equip lay leaders in your church, many of whom have had their own marriages reignited or resurrected while participating in the ministry. This model helps expand your church’s capacity to care for marriages and can help prevent staff burnout and fatigue by creating a clear, sustainable path for supporting couples without relying solely on church staff.

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Re|engage is built around small groups rather than traditional counseling or one-on-one mentoring. While counseling can be an important resource, Re|engage creates space for couples to grow in the context of relationships with others, where they can experience honesty, encouragement, accountability, and biblical discipleship together.

Hand holding heart icon Adaptable to Your Church

Re|engage can be adapted to serve churches of many sizes and ministry contexts. Our coaches help your team think through implementation, including group structure, meeting space, scheduling, and challenges that may come up along the way.

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Who Re|engage Serves

For churches

Churches Looking to Serve Married Couples 

Serving married couples is one of the most important and difficult needs churches face. Re|engage seeks to meet the needs of couples in your church and community through a small group format.

For participants

Married Couples Seeking Growth

Re|engage is for marriages between one man and one woman. Whether a marriage feels distant, is struggling to get along, or is genuinely broken, every couple can find real growth and deeper connection through Re|engage. Even the strongest marriages have room to grow closer.

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Ministry Structure

Weekly Coursework

Participants work through the weekly curriculum individually, and then discuss answers as a couple prior to attending group.

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Ministry Structure

Large Group Time

Every week begins in a large group setting, where participants will hear stories of hope from other couples whose marriages have been transformed or learn practical steps they can take to improve their relationship.

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Ministry Structure

Small Group Discussion

After meeting as a large group, participants will break off into smaller groups, with each group led by a facilitator couple. Together, the small group will work through the 14-lesson curriculum and learn how to effectively communicate, resolve conflict, and grow closer to their spouses.

Marriage Ministry Curriculum

What's Covered in Re|engage?

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    Lessons 1 & 2
    God’s Design for Marriage

    Discover God’s original purpose for marriage and why it matters. This section lays the foundation by showing that while every couple experiences brokenness, hope and restoration begin with understanding God's love.

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    Lessons 3 & 4
    Receiving God’s Grace

    Learn to receive God’s grace in your life and marriage. Through the lens of humility, couples are invited to stop blaming and start healing by first examining their own hearts.

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    Lessons 5–8
    Restoring your Relationship

    This section provides practical tools to rebuild trust and connection. Couples will walk through biblical steps of conflict resolution, forgiveness, and peacemaking that lead to real healing.

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    Lessons 9 & 10
    Rebuilding with Intentionality

    Learn how to make lasting changes by renewing your commitment and resetting unrealistic expectations. These lessons equip couples to build a marriage rooted in faithfulness and clarity.

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    Lessons 11–13
    Growing

    Intimacy is about more than just physical connection. These chapters help couples grow closer emotionally, physically, and spiritually by pursuing oneness in every area of life.

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    Lesson 14
    Continue to Invest

    Marriage transformation doesn’t stop here. This final lesson challenges couples to keep growing and to invest what they’ve learned into each other—and into other couples.

Testimonials

What Churches are Saying

The vulnerability and transparency that
Re|engage fosters has had a positive impact on our Community Groups and overall church culture."
Scott Freeman, Pastor of Biblical Community 
Grace Church, Greenville, SC
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Re|engage is a great discipleship tool to get the uncommitted, whether inside and outside of your church, connected to Christ and community.
Mark McLemore, Pastor of Life Development
River City Community Church, Selma, TX
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You do not have to be in crisis to come to Re|engage. It can also be for couples who have a good marriage and just want to go to great.
Sharon L. Good, Minister of Real LIFE & Counseling
The Church on Rush Creek, Arlington, TX
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Participant Stories

David and Lauren Kinney

Discover how God worked through a season of hardship to restore David and Laurens's marriage in ways they never thought possible.


Jim and Samantha Paul

See how the Lord carried Jim and Samantha through the storm of pornography addiction and brought their marriage to true restoration.

Doug and Dyann Kierstead

“I thought I knew what grace was." Watch how Doug and Dyann's marriage transformed when they prioritized the other's needs over their own.

Ministry Implementation Timeline

There is no one-size-fits-all path to launching Re|engage. While most churches take about nine to 12 months to implement the ministry, the timing and approach can vary based on your team, structure, and ministry context.

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Explore the Ministry

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Attend an Open House

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Sign a Use Agreement

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Attend a Training Conference

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Facilitate a Pilot Group to Establish Leaders

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Launch the Ministry at Your Church

We’re with you – before, during, and after launch

From exploring the ministry to leading it in your church, our team provides ministry coaching, resources, training events, and more to make sure you feel supported along the way.

Churches Offering Re|engage

Re|engage is run by churches all across the globe. Type in your location to see if there’s a Re|engage church near you. 

FAQs

Ready to explore Re|engage for your church?

If you’d like to explore bringing the healing of marriages that Christ provides through Re|engage to your church, please fill out the ministry form today!

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Still have questions?

We’d love to help. Fill out the form to let us know what questions you have about Re|engage, and a member of our team will follow up with you.

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